In a world that often has instant requirements amp information validation amp approval There is a powerful lesson in allowing people to be wrong about you The truth is not everyone will or will want to understand your journey the things you say your choices or your character It is a hard thing to learn but that s perfectly okay Time is so precious amp we are often wasting it defending ourselves to those committed to making us wrong or not willing to hear our stories Imagine changing our focus points amp investing that energy into being the person whose character speaks louder than the naysayers or giving our energy towards those that actually see us I used to run internationally amp nationally One day I was just done running amp walked off the track in a qualifying 3000m race I d never quit anything before My coach rang me up amp told me I was a disappointment pathetic wouldn t amount to anything amp other unkind things I felt devastated amp those words hurt me deeply She was an Olympic coach amp if she thought that then it must be true For a long time I believed I would never be anything amp was a disappointment Truth was I was finishing college amp I didn t have enough money to pursue being an international athlete full time I had to go to work full time amp make a living a different way Making hard choices people don t understand or you can t explain is a tough thing amp part of life but it s harder when people create stories about it or anything you do that aren t true At the end of the day we are only who we believe we are what we believe if it is the words of the outside world or ourselves makes a big difference Because we can only control our thoughts amp we are the one living our lives Critics will always be there but remember to write your own stories amp make sure no one defines you or writes yours for you We don t have to be understood to make successful choices for us My journey was different to what I dreamed amp what many wanted for me but I had to choose me We all have to choose ourselves or otherwise we miss what is truly waiting for us trying to live up to others expectations Join me on p teron for nude and bikini yoga over 2 year worth of content to enjoy Try a paid per view here There is over 21 new videos a month over all the tiers and new art every day dropping too - Link in socials