You know I ve noticed that when life gets really tough for someone and everything seems to be falling apart and falling away it s usually right before a big shift happens It s like their energy is evolving and moving towards different things After the hardest times in their lives they often experience the biggest leap forward I often think of it like a slingshot the further it s pulled back the further it shoots things forward It s a perspective that can offer a lot of hope and resilience during challenging times And one I ve been relating a lot to lately