My name is angelica i am 20 years old and i am studying psychology if
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angel_lil
My name is Angelica I am 20 years old and I am studying psychology If someone had told me when I was 14 that I would be confident beautiful and strong I would have laughed I felt like a nobody back School I was a gray mouse - skinny awkward with a permanent ponytail and clothes bought in less than fashionable stores I was not the life of the party I was not invited to birthday parties or to cafes after school And some popular girls openly mocked me First I tolerated it I started avoiding them In the end I withdrew myself My mother noticed that something was wrong I didn t want to tell her - I thought it would only make things But one day I came across a video about psychology They talked about self-esteem about confidence about how appearance is not the most important thing if you know how to present yourself I started reading books I studied the psychology of behavior the principles of confidence body language I realized that the problem is not in me - the problem is in those who humiliate others to feel better I changed my posture I began to speak more firmly I began to take care of myself not for others but for myself I bought beautiful clothes - not expensive but those in which I felt comfortable - Yes I changed Now I am studying to be a psychologist because I know I am not the only one who has gone through this I want to help those who feel different And now I want to ask you Have you ever felt that you lack self-confidence How do you deal with insecurity and fear Do you believe that a person can change if he starts working on himself Let s talk about it Your experience is important