I ve been learning about Tantra lately and wow-- NOTHING what I had thought I assumed Tantra was just different sex positions Little did I know Tantra is simply a way of life Bodhicitta in Sanskrit is just a mind set To have an open heart and to help others by giving value Tantra is ALL about the wonderful pleasures in life However what it is NOT is to ATTACH ourselves to wordily pleasures NEVER to DISTORT those pleasures and put them on a pedestal ALL I am saying is enjoy the sweet sweet pleasantries in life however PLEASE do not attach or distort those pleasures into something they are not Go out and enjoy that ice cream cone