Hey dear My name s Helga and I am 48 y o At this age I realized that life is an amazing journey full of discoveries and possibilities I love being in charge in a relationship because it gives me confidence and a sense of control But it is also very important to me that my partner takes the initiative I believe that in a relationship there should be harmony when both people can be leaders in their own spheres but at the same time support and inspire each other I like it when a man shows care makes unexpected surprises and shows that he appreciates me At this age I have learned to appreciate every moment and discover new facets of life I am ready to share my thoughts experiences and inspiration with you Let s create a space together where we can be ourselves share joy and support each other I look forward to hearing your comments and stories