I have a lot of conversations with female friends about the OF dilemma So many of them believe they can t post on OF or similar sites because they aren t conventionally attractive enough Each and every time I chuckle and try to remind them that it takes all kinds of kinda and you never know just how you look through other people s eyes Be kind to the people in your life Support them and remind them that everyone is beautiful to someone but the most important person to impress is yourself