Own every inch confidence is necessary for a good fuck self-doubt can
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thecockyphilosopher
OWN EVERY INCH Confidence is necessary for a good fuck Self-doubt can kill the mood in a second as loops of negative inner talk take over Great fucking is a journey requiring full attention and a firm belief in yourself but it is not the exclusive right of the body-beautiful or veterans with years of experience Sexiness and confidence are intertwined and unlike looks or experience confidence is something everyone can build The seeds of self-doubt the kind that gnaw at your very existence have been the focus of philosophy for the last couple of hundred years The feeling has been described as a dizziness by Kierkegaard and nausea by Sartre and involves much more than a lack of self-confidence It has everything to do with how we cope with freedom and meaning Once Nietzsche moved God out of the picture we were left with a world without restrictions or limitations Where we make the rules But it also left us on our own with no greater force in charge where existence can seem meaningless Some philosophers like Camus went as far to say that existence itself is absurd The result of total freedom means not knowing why we are here being unsure of our place in the world and Camus went on to say answering why is the most important challenge of our lives From here stems all the anxieties we struggle with But here-in lies a clue to quelling anxiety to build confidence and become sexier All we have to do is find meaning in life Sartre famously declared Existence precedes essence What he meant was that no one can give your life meaning it s something we create for ourselves through existence or in other words our actions We create meaning through doing Not waiting for a sign or an opportunity or for someone else to open a door but going out in the world and actively finding out who we really are And it doesn t matter what you do nothing predefines us just as long as you live true to yourself and help others do the same The satisfaction of finding meaning in your personal or professional life will see anxieties fall away and confidence grow The byproduct is you become sexier and a better fuck Who would have thought that the best sex advice would be to build confidence by living authentically