Chastity is getting more and more controversial due to some trends in
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Chastity is getting more and more controversial due to some trends in Femdom Thus let Me remind you that kink play is consensual power exchange Sub submits his power to the domme someone he trusts and respects And the domme is responsible for creating and holding a safe space for her sub to not just experience his desires but also to share reflect and release emotions and tensions and to empower However one of the trends in Femdom nowadays is demasculinization disempowerment and denial from pleasure or even reproduction If the person is into humiliation and can separate kinky play from real life and also hold boundaries for him and his health both mental and physical all alright Problem occurs when this man actually accepts his position of a loser and chooses to live a miserable lifestyle In the contrary chastity should actually lead into empowering healthy masculinity rather than make you feel unworthy It can help to get rid off of toxic masculinity patterns or unhealthy habits and addictions Or just bring new fuel and perspective to your life awakening your potential How It can strengthen the power dynamic and deepen trust and emotional connection between domme and sub which opens space for vulnerability and deeper conversations and emotions It also should improve self-control and mental discipline of the sub It teaches him to manage his desires and to channel his focus towards other areas of life including bettering himself in ways as personal growth or serving his dominant Thus it can also lead to improvement of the relationship between the holder and the slave as energy can be focused more on emotional intimacy communication and nurturing their relationship in other ways Also the built tension can make the actual release much more intense and pleasurable Yet I d say that this is more like a bonus as I consider the benefits described above much more prosperous