What is important to talk about before sex To ensure the comfort pleasure and safety of everyone involved it is worth knowing these 5 questions that cover the most important points 1 What does your partner like about sex 2 How does your partner imagine sex with you 3 What doesn t your partner like 4 Which role is more like leading or being led 5 Is it comfortable to talk about what you don t like about sex After such a conversation I m sure you can get much closer and the sex will get hotter all by itself Do you like to talk about sex or do you prefer to just enjoy it