Let s reminisce about your first sex with a new partner How was it Was it perfect like in the movies Or not at all as thought and imagined Many of us walk into this space with high expectations that are sometimes shaped by movies books and media We imagine the perfect atmosphere passion and synchronization of movements but the reality can be a little different The first sex with a new partner is often far from as smooth and perfect as we dreamed It can be a little awkward even funny or on the contrary exhilarating First sex is the beginning of a journey together And failures and imperfections are just part of the journey to a deeper connection and understanding To get to know each other understand desires and preferences you need to give yourself and your partner time