ORGASMIC LIFE In Tantra self pleasure is seen as self care The more you discover love accept and understand about yourself the better you can offer the same to others especially your sexual partner or partners The more mental spiritual emotional and physical balance you attain the more fulfillment you can find in your life Would you like a self - pleasure guided visualization with sensual photos and Tantra breathe video Tip 20 In Tantra self pleasure is seen as self care The more you love accept and understand yourself the better you offer the same to others