Self love so the funeral is over and family has gone back to their
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Self Love So the funeral is over and family has gone back to their many places of living The house is quiet and ours again Tbh it s been a while since I ve been able to sit by myself in silence and bust a nut The past few years of caring for someone left us exhausted most days by the end of the day Now everything is still sort of surreal in a way Self love is an art a celebration of the body and mind and there s something incredibly special about carving out time for yourself especially at night when the world is quiet and it s just you and your thoughts In a modern urban world where schedules are packed and stress piles on those long extended bate sessions can be the ultimate escape It s a personal retreat a way to connect with your own body on a deeper level free to explore your desires without any external pressures There s a real pleasure in the buildup the anticipation that comes with knowing that this time is yours It s not rushed there are no distractions just a pure connection with yourself You dim the lights maybe put on some music or your favorite visuals setting the mood just right Each touch is intentional savoring every moment and letting go of the day s chaos There s a joy in this slowness in drawing things out feeling every sensation fully It s not about rushing to the end but about enjoying the journey feeling the gradual rise of pleasure knowing you can take as long as you want It s an indulgence a way to remind yourself that you deserve this kind of attention and that taking time for self care is essential In these quiet moments the city fades away the traffic the endless notifications the constant demand for productivity Instead it s just you fully present fully in tune with what feels good There s a unique power in this kind of self pleasure the kind that s not just physical but deeply emotional and mental It s about giving yourself permission to feel to unwind and to release The more time you take the more you become attuned to your body s rhythms discovering new sensations and unlocking deeper layers of pleasure There s no judgment no external gaze just an intimate dialogue with yourself In a world that constantly pulls you in different directions self love is a way to reclaim your autonomy your pleasure and your body You re in control deciding the pace the intensity and when or if the session ends It s empowering to know that you can create this kind of joy for yourself without relying on anyone else These extended solo sessions become a form of meditation a way to clear your mind and focus on the moment You can let go of the need to perform or meet expectations this time is purely for you a gift to yourself And when it s over there s a profound sense of relaxation like you ve just reset your entire system You can feel the tension melt away the stress of the day lifted and what s left is a sense of peace satisfaction and self-love It s a reminder that you re worthy of this time that your pleasure matters and that sometimes the best company you can have is yourself