Being a Switch I have the ability to be both dominant and submissive depending on mood role and play partner I ve noticed I like to break the rules at times however and I m ok with the repercussions of my decisions to act out when they arise I do want to discuss that for me personally being submissive or dominant or being involved in BDSM role play or scenes is not always inherently sexual in nature It s actually quite therapeutic and healing for me and I can actively seek it out for those types of properties and ways that it impacts me instead of in a sexual manner Mind you there is time and place for everything and I have gone to events thinking I would just be an observer and instead have gotten so lost in active participation that I forgot I was at an event altogether and I ve also gone with my intention set differently then how things actually go but it is always for the best and just what I needed What do you consider yourself to be