We ve learned over time that when he s not able to cum he s overall a much better submissive Chastity is really important for that - it prevents him from masturbating and cumming most of the time but I do sometimes let him out of the cage - either as a reward or just for fun I still don t usually like for him to have a full orgasm though which is why you ll see that I often will let him ejaculate but not actually fully cum Generally referred to as a ruined orgasm I prefer to think of it as ejaculation without orgasm