Sometimes we criticize ourselves so harshly that it seems as if we have a real fight with ourselves But we are not our enemies we are our best friends So let s take care of ourselves like a pet praise more scold less and sometimes give ourselves tasty treats not just in the form of cakes Self-love is not selfishness but a necessity Accept yourself first and then the world around you will perceive you differently After all who else will love you as much as you love yourself