The other day i lost a close friend of mine no luckily she is fine but
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The other day I lost a close friend of mine No luckily she is fine but after our last meeting she wrote to me I decided to stop our close communication But sometimes I will borrow money from you and you can ask me for help if you need it At first I thought it was some kind of joke We hadn t been apart for over 20 years Yes we had become very different over the years but that bond like a kinship bond was very dear to me I insisted on talking to her and found out that the reason is my personal boundaries For example during our meeting after a small amount of alcohol she starts calling everyone and inviting them to our party and I ask her not to do that She also doesn t like that I ask her not to approach men on the street with the offer to meet my beautiful friend i e me In her opinion all this restricts her freedom After all if she wants to behave in a crackpot way she can t do it because of my requests But it turns out that she wants me to accept her freedom even if it interferes with me personally without accepting my restrictions It s very hard to put into words But I feel very broken like after a divorce life